Baby Shower

Lyla Joy's Baby Shower is coming up soon, on February 9. I'm planning to attend, but I have to admit I feel a little weird about it. I'm 52 years old and have never attended a baby shower before. Back in the day, this was a woman thing but I guess now it's different (I have to admit I harbor a feeling that only women think it's different now and all the men secretly feel uncomfortable). I'm wondering what gift to get. I'd like to buy something personal and helpful for Mark, but I'm lost on what that might be......